The thrill of living to your full potential

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So often (probably too often) we find ourselves rushing around, trying to meet everyone’s demands. “I can do what I want later…plenty of time”. The days start to turn into weeks, the weeks into months, months into years and, before we know it, we’ve woken up one day and WTF? Where did the time go?

WE need to take some time out and ask a question that is temptingly easy to ignore:  

Are we living up to our potential?

We need to ask this question. As only by asking it can we arrive at an answer.

And if the answer is no—that we aren’t living up to our own potential—then we’ve got to make some changes, and fast, because the thrill of fulfilling your own potential is so worth it, in every sense.

Because when we aren’t, we’re bound to experience prolonged feelings of anxiety, angst and disappointment—sometimes without ever knowing why. Trust me. I’ve been there.

And it ain’t fun.

I remember sitting at my desk in my old 9-5 job. Looking out of the window thinking “is this it?”, “is this what I worked so hard for?” 

And why was I there?

Because that’s where I thought my potential was. That’s where I had been taught my potential was. That’s where I had been falsely led to believe my potential was—through years of schooling, teachers, parents and the media, all telling me that I could do “be somebody” and do “big things.” – because to them,   “being somebody” and “doing big things” meant surrendering myself  to the system, making someone else a huge profit and doing what I was told until I retired.

Is that what people thought my potential was?! A resource (human resources anyone?) to making other people money and being paid a small margin of the profit.  Provided I was good and did what I was told that is.

I wanted more. To do anything meaningful I had to start to tap into my own potential.  I had to jump from the nest and make a leap into the unknown. I won’t lie, it’s scary!

And you know what?

I was flying! I was alive! I was jumping out of bed, full of energy. Full of excitement. Ready to live fully. Revelling in the opportunity to live life to the fullest.  To live by my rules.  ‘Cause they’re the best!

I look forward to each day. I truly feel I am working toward my potential and this is just the tip of the iceberg. I am working on what I enjoy and because of this I am good at my job.  DP Web Development is just the start.

And it feels amazing! It is a mixture of pride, excitement, passion. Some anticipation and butterflies in the stomach.  Truly you should experience this.

And you can. Really you can.

Are you living to your true potential?  Because that is where life truly starts!

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GO FOR IT!

Why not make today THE DAY?

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You know that day. The day when you will make your dreams a reality. The day when you’ll show everyone what you can do. The day when you’ll finally take a chance.  The day you will stand out from the crowd, stand up to be counted. The day you will break free from those chains holding you back, screaming in triumph and euphoria. That day.

We all have certain goals in life. And we are all guilty of putting them off. Sometimes for years.  Waiting for the right time. Waiting for the motivation to hit you. You’re in a bit of a rut right now. Life is kinda getting in the way.

But (you know this):  there is never a “right time” to start achieving your goals. Why not start today? Right now!

Nothing can stop you from going after what you want except for you. You and you alone control your outcomes. Trust and believe in your ability to create the life you want. That can mean something different to everyone. What is your dream life? For me it’s running my own successful business, and being able to spend quality time with my family and friends

I aim to live each day of my life trying to achieve these goals. The trick is to stay motivated. But how is this done? Here are some tried and tested methods on how to stay motivated and get the life you want

  • Get Up and Get Moving Every Morning. Even if you’re between jobs or (like me ) work from home make sure to still get up early, have a shower, do your hair and wear your best every morning. Get in the habit of this. Don’t just sit around in your pyjamas all day. Go and work in another area for a while. For instance, I’m currently in a pub…er… that’s not the best example. But it is quiet. Early morning. And I’m drinking tea .The library is another good place.
  •   Make Two Sets of Goals. One set should be the kind that you can complete today, or in the next few days. For example start working out or follow up on a new business lead. The other list should contain longer term goals like complete the website, launch business by January 26th.  You need to get moving on the short term goals as quickly as possible. You’ll find you will be less stressed at actually taking action. Trust me inaction causes much more angst than positive action.
  • Stay Active/Workout. Even if it’s a 20 minute stroll around the block. You will feel better, refreshed. Keep your body in motion as well as your mind.
  • Set Deadlines. This is essential to your progress. Without any set deadlines you will lose yourself in a sea of procrastination.  Set realistic deadlines and make sure you hit them. On a regular basis. If you miss one don’t be too hard on yourself though. Don’t become negative. Get back up and strive for the next deadline.
  • Set Motivational Calendar Reminders. I like these. Wake up to an inspirational quote form you mobile. Or get one of those calendars that have one for each day. It always brings a little lift to start the day. Here’s mine for today:  “Go confidently in the direction of your dreams.  Live the life you have imagined”. –Henry David Thoreau
  • Reduce/Eliminate Time Spent with Pessimists. Tough but true. Cut the pessimists out from your life. They do you no good at all.   They will drag you down. They will see problems with everything you do. Step away from that shit. Surround yourself with optimists. You know, those people who just feel amazing to be around.
  • Take One Day At a Time. You don’t have to achieve everything at once!  Take every step as it comes. AND REMEMBER TO ENJOY THE JOURNEY! Trust that things will happen as you planned. Trust in your own abilities.
  • Sheer Willpower. Never ever give up. You will face adversity. Knocks. Remind yourself, ‘”nothing will stop me, nothing can halt me, I can do this. I’m going to do this. I will win”

.And finally. Here’s a quote to stick to your monitor. To your fridge. To the mirror:

“No matter how many mistakes you make or how slow you progress, you are still way ahead of everyone who isn’t trying.” – Tony Robbins

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Which way are you going?