Do you Tweet?

This micro blogging site is massive. There are now over 200 million users on Twitter and this number is rising every day! It now has real influence in the world.  I’m there. Follow me @dougpitchers . I’ll follow you back. But like every social media platform there are certain guidelines that you should observe. They’re not rule per se…but break them and you will suffer a digital polite silence. A few unfollows and you may just detect a pixilated vision of tumbleweed blowing across your screen.

So read these top ten tips of Twitter etiquette and you won’t go far wrong.

  1. Always add value.  Very important. What you tweet should add value to your followers day. Posts like “Wondering what to have for lunch” followed half an hour late by ”went for a sandwich” while this may be fascinating to yourself (really?) It is not as interesting to your followers who will then unfollow you. Probably. Unless it’s your Mum. Who will be glad you’re eating well.  Which leads me on to my next pont.
  2. Everyone can see what you’re tweeting. Your boss, your family, your friends.  So don’t write anything you don’t want broadcast to the world. Simple you would think. But people have and will in the future lose jobs over things they have tweeted.
  3. Don’t Overuse Hashtags These can broadcast your tweet to a wider audience by being posted on a number of threads related to you hash tagged word. But #Don’t #Overuse #Hashtags #in #Your #Tweets #It #Looks #Ridiculous #Stick #To #Three #or #Fewer. Need I say more?
  4.  A follow-back is nice, but it’s not required. You may be surprised by who decides to follow you. But that does not mean you have to follow them back.  Blindly following everyone will make you look like a robot. Be a little discerning. People will get an idea of you by who you follow. It’s not a bad idea to follow influential users and people who frequently retweet or comment on your post,  but not every single person.
  5. Avoid Negatvity. Criticism of a thing, a piece of media or soemthing inanimate is ok. If you knwo what you are talking about (please amke sure you do know at least a little bit or you will look like a plonker). Criticising individuals is not ok. Nothing good will com of it. Don’t go there.
  6.   Don’t auto DM people. (DM is direct message) Make it personal. I sometimes get a message saying how excited someone is to being followed by me. How they c can’t wait to see what I will tweet and how lovely life is and aren’t you looking lovely today. No. Make it personal or don’t send it. It’s no longer cool. If it ever was.
  7.   Number of tweets. Tricky one. Aim for about 4 or 5 a day. More than this you will risk clogging up people’s feed with just you and they will unfollow you just to shut up. I have had this. There were at least t 30 consecutive tweets from one person. I no longer follow them.  Less than 4 or 5 and you may seem standoffish or you have very little of interest to say.
  8. Don’t be an egghead. That’s the image you have (an egg!)  if you haven’t  personalised your profile.  Give your profile a bit of personality. You can add a lot of image your page. Don’t go overboard though.
  9. Self-promotion.  Twitter is a social networking site.  So a certain amount of shameless self-promotion is expected. But don’t make it just about you.  People will tire of it quickly. That means unfollowing. Engaging with other users and sharing material that doesn’t belong to you is as integral to the experience as the self-adulation. For every link of your own that you share, balance it out with two or three posts that engage with other users or share someone else’s content
  10. Don’t just lurk. You’ve signed up for a twitter account Get active!  Engage! You will need to start tweeting if you are hoping people will follow. If you don’t have anything interesting to say, how can you expect people to notice you? Start getting active on Twitter and engage with people.

Twitter can be fun. You need to be creative with why you say. You only have 140 characters to say it in. A lot can be said. It is strangely addictive. I come to Twitter more than I do Facebook these days…

Hope to see you there!

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Are you the real you?

Warning: Some tough love today.  But it’s love with all my heart.

When you were born you were a blank slate. Pretty much.  There was nothing there other than the essence of who you are as an individual. Your primary identity. What makes you you. No subconscious rules to obey. No fear of embarrassment, ridicule, failure.   You were the pure essence of you.

But as you got older, not by much, your parents told you to “stop doing that”. Your teachers made you walk in single file. In fact they ran your school like a military prison. You had to even ask to pee FFS.  Subconsciously you placed all of these limitations around yourself.

You were the creator of these limitations.  Of that there is no doubt.

In other words: You created your own reality.

But you were a kid. Don’t beat yourself up about it!  You didn’t know that you had a choice to believe what you wanted to believe. You didn’t realize you had another way.

Now, as an adult, there’s no excuse! You do not have to live in world limited by your own thoughts. Or dreams.

YOU HAVE A CHOICE

Believe it or not we can choose what to think. We can choose what to believe.  We are able to choose what is important to us and what is worth focusing our attention on.  These are what make us what and who we are. These are what make our reality. Our own little world.

  • If you think you are a failure, you are.
  • If you believe you are stuck in your job, you are.
  • If you think you’ll always be poor, you will be.

You may think this sound simplistic. That’s because IT IS!

Take a moment. Ok.

Truth. IT’S TIME TO GET REAL WITH YOURSELF.

  • What excuse have you used that you didn’t get that project done?
  • Whose fault is it that you are in a job you hate?
  • Who’s making you stay in that shitty relationship?

You can’t help it? Can you explain to me why it’s not your fault?

You need to be brutally honest with yourself.  And I know it ain’t easy.  But this needs to be done NOW!

Take a big breath:

FACT:  There is no external force making you think or feel anything.  It is your choice how you react and think. And if there’s something that you are unhappy about now then it is because you are letting it be that way. You are not doing anything about it. Because that is the easy thing to do.  You are choosing unhappiness because it is easy!

BUT THIS IS YOUR LIFE! YOU’VE ONLY GOT ONE. MAKE IT A GOOD ONE!

Own your fears. Own your actions. Take ownership over your limitations.

Throw out the shit that doesn’t serve you anymore. Nourish everything that empowers you.

What will you create today? What about tomorrow? Are you going to create misery, or are you going to create joy, excitement, and unlimited potential?

It’s your choice.

Choose wisely and with full knowledge that the consequences are all on you.

Dare to be Different